Abstinence Satisfies the Will

So consider one last time the practice field. Football players gather together knowing that practice is nearly impossible if their teammates do not show up. In order for the team to be successful, in order words, achieve victory on game day, they must all show up for practice and practice their hearts out. Furthermore some players realize that they may not start, and perhaps never actually step foot on the field of play on game day. 

Every player must be prepared to play, knowing that he may never actually be directly involved in a specific play on game day. This perhaps is the most difficult position and the most admirable player, the one who served the team on the bench. Unfortunately we tend to ignore them or worse yet pity them. To think that we have reduced a man’s importance to “making plays” is not sad but disheartening. I doubt if “making plays” is the purpose of practice.

Those real men who practice their hearts out yet remain on the bench are to be honored, for here lies in the virtue of abstinence, combating gluttony! I would argue that such players who are admirable for their discipline despite never playing a "real" snap, point more directly to the real essence of football. They, who sit on the bench, who remain only sons and brothers, point more directly to real victory. 
Likewise I would say that those men who abstain from married life because of a “higher” calling point more directly to the genius of masculinity, found as a brother of the Lord. So if I take this football analogy and genius of masculinity to a vocational call of men, you would have the priesthood. 

How strange society has viewed the genius of our masculinity...to pity the player who practices their heart out yet sits on the bench. I, on the other hand, see the genius of our masculinity shining forth and would prefer to honor our brothers who “sit on the bench” wearing that honorable collar.